Prioritising urself
On constant occasion we all have felt like a second choice or a second option, now there is no bad thing to be someone else's second priority but yes it does hurt pretty bad when someone is your no. 1 and u are not the same for then
Now what ill say might sound a little negative but sometimes we get people that our more better then us and sometimes we are not able to fulfill their desires and satisfy their needs but at some point in life that happens and it is normal the earth is a very wide place and it has different people, with different opinions, different desires, and if we are friends with someone so it is pretty obvious that we tend to fulfill their demands and in usual cases we do feel happy about it but at a point we won't be happy with our selves because in order to satisfy the person in our front we decided to let down our own personality and that is something that should not be there.
Yes to exist and to become a better version of ourselves we need to work on us but we should work on us because we want to get better for us for ourselves not for some friend or partner who is actually not happy with our real personality
Like as I said changes are Nessecarry but please do the changes for ourselves to satisfy your self not the satisfy someone else
I hope the one who reads this till the end finds happiness and gets better<3
See u next time for now , signing off